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I Kissed A Boy & Girl Stars on Cancellation, Toxic Gays & Open Relationships

OUTCAST WORLD

Wednesday, 6 May 2026 - 25 minutes

The BBC made history with I Kissed A Boy and I Kissed A Girl. Then they cancelled them.In this episode of Outcast World, Graeme Smith is joined by Gareth Valentino and Amy Spalding, two of the standout names from those shows, now launching their own podcast It Started With A Kiss.What starts as a conversation about queer TV quickly turns into something else.We get into what it actually felt like to come out on national television, the reality of sudden visibility, and why those shows mattered more than the BBC seems willing to admit.Then it shifts.Gay men being brutal to each other. Lesbian solidarity. Open relationships, when they work and when they really don’t. Chemsex culture. Internalised homophobia.And a story about a relationship that went very wrong, involving secrecy, betrayal, and HIV disclosure, that says more about queer dating than most people are willing to say out loud.This is part one of a two-part conversation.In part two, we go further into the politics, Trump, trans rights, the UK, and why queer culture feels like it’s moving forward and backwards at the same time.CHAPTERS00:00 Why I Kissed A Boy and I Kissed A Girl mattered 02:30 What it felt like to come out on TV 06:00 The reality of sudden queer visibility 10:00 Gay men vs gay men 13:00 Lesbian solidarity vs male toxicity 16:00 Open relationships, reality vs fantasy 20:00 When non-monogamy goes wrong 24:00 Dating, sex, and honesty in queer cultureFOLLOW / SUBSCRIBESubscribe for full video episodes of Outcast World Part two drops in 48 hours🎧 Listen on all podcast platforms 📱 Follow for clips and updatesABOUT OUTCAST WORLDOutcast World is queer politics, sex and culture. Smart, funny, occasionally filthy.---THIS IS OUTCAST WORLD ---Like and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts and please leave a review. This helps us become easier to discover. Please take time to rate the show and if you're enjoying the podcast then take time to comment about it wherever you listen. //////// Check us on Insta, and TikTok @thisisoutcastworld ///// Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.